When January 1st rolled around, I set a goal, as most of us do each new year in the form of a New Year’s resolution. My goal, I decided, was to give up Dr. Pepper. I wanted to give it up just to get healthier. I don’t know about you, but drinking six+ cans a day to nothing is a hard feat to master. At first, my resolve was up. I can do this! I kept telling myself. Over and over. Day after day. I can do this! And I did……..
For a few weeks, but then I started getting headaches which progressed into dizziness…..
and dizziness is terrible!
My resolve started to wane.
I was dizzy
I started complaining about the headaches and feeling dizzy, quite frequently I might add.
One day I decided, one Dr. Pepper wouldn’t hurt me so I drank a Dr. Pepper just to curb the dizziness.
Then a few days later, another.
And so on and so forth.
Finally, my husband decided its cheaper to buy a pack of them. At first I said no, not to do that because, you know, easier access. At least if I was having to drive somewhere to buy one I wouldn’t drink as many.
Regardless, he did, but he hid them.
My sons acted as Dr.Pepper police and would only get me, from hiding, one can a day. The oldest even told me one day, you’ve already had your one can for the day.
And then I found them!
It was over! Now I could drink them at my leisure. One a day progressed to three a day.
My point here: self-control, self-discipline.
Self-control/self-discipline is a very important concept for us to learn and apply daily in our devotion to God.
Didn’t Jesus exhibit and master self-discipline/self-control when He walked the earth? Did He not have plenty of reason to give in to temptation, while remaining faithful and strong to His purpose?
My husband and I have been hitting this topic pretty regular with our children, trying and trying to help them learn it.
But, it came over me last night, in a conversation with our 12-, 8-, and 5- year old about self control during their fits of anger, that I have not exhibited self-control in my cravings for Dr. Pepper. They witnessed that journey with me. They saw my struggle of going without. And they saw me fail and give in to the temptation.
Now, I ask myself, how can I teach and preach self-control, if I am failing to exhibit it myself?
It was a very sobering thought!
So, back to the drawing board I go.
……And God is faithful, He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. – 1 Corinthians 10:13
I have always believed not only do children learn from their parents but vice versa as well.
Never have truer words been spoken.